When we decide to lie, we privilege some other value over honesty. In an attempt to conceal the truth from other people, we hide our true identity. People will see us differently and possibly give us overly positive feedback about our abilities. Lying can bring instant gratification and appears easy part to shy away from reality at the moment but inevitably makes life more complicated. It may cover the shame and the guilt for the moment, but will not render a realistic solution to the problem. We may gain an advantage or avoid confrontation in the short-term, but when we are caught we jeopardize the effectiveness of our communication and the strength of our relationships.
Over time, the deception can eat away at our self-esteem; undermining our fundamental sense of dignity and worthiness.
Honesty is a valuable trait that helps humanity in so many ways in this world where morality is at its lowest ebb. It sharpens our perception, improves our vigor, and engenders confidence and trust. When you rid your life of dishonesty, you speak more confidently, command more respect, and have better relationships with people. The pleasures of dishonesty are brief; they are succinct; they are ephemera but honesty opens the door to acquire knowledge because of the instinct of sincerity etched into your personality. Dishonesty really doesn't help anyone, including your very self. When you tell lies to cover up, you hurt your mind and put yourself out of touch with reality. People may not easily know that you are projecting deceit but right within you, the truth is known because you can only lie to people but certainly not yourself. When this turns into a habit you lose your sense of personal esteem and become a dishonesty person. The guilt of deception will hang on you unless you decide to change and come out clean. If you wish to live with respect and dignity, you have to stop lying and live uprightly. Before honestly must set in, there are some certain things you will have to let go with a strong decision in your mind. Remember, attempting to make lasting changes to behavior is a complex process that requires determination and concerted effort.
These 2 books offer a sound and reliable roadmap to building trust and integrity. You will learn about what you can do to take proactive steps to stop lying and transform your life.
Here Is a Preview of What you'll learn...
- Why People Lie
- How Lying Destroys a Relationship
- How to Tell if Someone is Lying
- Reasons to Stop Lying
- Deciding to Stop Lying
- How to Stop Lying In A Relationship
- How to Save a Relationship After Lying
- How to Deal With a Pathological Liar
- The Benefits of Living Honestly
And lots more
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